Waiting for the Right One ?? Or Contentment with the Existing One??
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Somebody told me that Finding the right person is
very hard & very wrong.
It is best to be the right person for the one you
love & start from there.
You will always end up disappointed when you set
standards & define a "right person" for you.
Don't rush things.Because somewhere somehow
GOD is preparing somebody for you.
You can never be perfect.The person you
love can never be perfect.
But both of you can be perfect through love
& prayers, & your love can be perfect
through both of you.
Our relationships fail not because
Our relationships fail not because
she/he's not the right person.
It is because we expect too much
It is because we expect too much
& we decided on our own.
Let GOD do the work..
Let GOD do the work..
You may call it waiting.
Pray.
Let GOD guide you always.
He Knows better.
He Knows the best!
Love is not what you think it is, because we are
overwhelmed with joy & romance, we forget to
learn the meaning of true love.
Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,
unconditional or simply denying oneself for the
sake of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal & can never be
defined.
When we think we're in love the first thing we
almost wanted the whole world to know is that our
love for someone could last forever.
We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful
gift from GOD."
After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty
quarrel we then say
"You are the biggest mistake I've ever made for
my entire life!.
Now, how do you say & spell the word L-O-V-E ?
Are you really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience
speaks & whispers right into our ears.
Many times we thought after having committed to
someone & your trust to one another freezes down
to 0 degree.
She/He ain't the right one.
I should probably wait for the right one to come.
But the big question anyone could not answer is
"Is she/he the right one?"
And "When is the right time?"
That made us stick to whom we are with.
Will you always be waiting for the right person to
come & the right time to commit?
A big YES is the answer.
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship.
Because you can never find love if you insist that
you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real
feelings, to know who you really are, & what you
really want in a relationship.
You're right.
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship,
but there is a compatible partnership that goes
along with it.
If you knew & felt that the relationship will not last,
don't go deeper into it.
You will just suffer the consequences & live like
hell the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't
make it any better by just pretending you still have
the same feelings.
Try to let go & give yourself a chance to grow and
give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right
decision & you made it all by yourself.
More frequently than not, we all act in a
hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone &
see them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached & think that
losing the one we love will somehow make us
weak & unable to face the storms of life.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us & imagined that if they leave
no one would accept us & our past.
We are mistaken, it's just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't something you can buy nor
beg.
It is real & existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can't find it, but it will knock before you when
you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but
don't forget that it also can make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy!
Life is More Beautiful with your Loved One Beside
you...
Pray.
Let GOD guide you always.
He Knows better.
He Knows the best!
Love is not what you think it is, because we are
overwhelmed with joy & romance, we forget to
learn the meaning of true love.
Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind,
unconditional or simply denying oneself for the
sake of someone very important in our life.
Others are saying love is immortal & can never be
defined.
When we think we're in love the first thing we
almost wanted the whole world to know is that our
love for someone could last forever.
We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful
gift from GOD."
After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty
quarrel we then say
"You are the biggest mistake I've ever made for
my entire life!.
Now, how do you say & spell the word L-O-V-E ?
Are you really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience
speaks & whispers right into our ears.
Many times we thought after having committed to
someone & your trust to one another freezes down
to 0 degree.
She/He ain't the right one.
I should probably wait for the right one to come.
But the big question anyone could not answer is
"Is she/he the right one?"
And "When is the right time?"
That made us stick to whom we are with.
Will you always be waiting for the right person to
come & the right time to commit?
A big YES is the answer.
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship.
Because you can never find love if you insist that
you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real
feelings, to know who you really are, & what you
really want in a relationship.
You're right.
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship,
but there is a compatible partnership that goes
along with it.
If you knew & felt that the relationship will not last,
don't go deeper into it.
You will just suffer the consequences & live like
hell the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't
make it any better by just pretending you still have
the same feelings.
Try to let go & give yourself a chance to grow and
give your heart a much needed attention.
Then you will find that you have made the right
decision & you made it all by yourself.
More frequently than not, we all act in a
hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone &
see them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached & think that
losing the one we love will somehow make us
weak & unable to face the storms of life.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us & imagined that if they leave
no one would accept us & our past.
We are mistaken, it's just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still
remains that love isn't something you can buy nor
beg.
It is real & existing.
You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart.
You can't find it, but it will knock before you when
you least expect it to come.
It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but
don't forget that it also can make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy!
Life is More Beautiful with your Loved One Beside
you...
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